Finding One Really Good Person

Finding One Really Good Person

 

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Love works for us humans if we allow it to work. The question is whether we can change it so that it works for us.

Finding a good person can be a task at times.

Can you make your loved one love you the way you love him or her? If you can do that, you can change a love for good! Read on to find out how…

The big question is can you change your love? And the answer, surprisingly, is Yes!

You can change it from emotion or love to a decision, a choice, a purpose. You can make it the other way round too by making it a decision, a choice, or a purpose.

Let me explain what I mean by each of these.

Emotion

 

The emotion of love is often a product of biology. If we look at the biology of humans, it is obvious that men or women give each other the emotion of love.

That is biology! However, is this true? I don’t think so. It is a product of our thoughts!

What kinds of things excite us when we are in love, as opposed to bored?

I think there are things we are attracted to that make us feel the pain of love. Our desires can be mistaken for feelings.

However, if we examine a relationship, we will usually see that the emotional aspect of it is a product of our thoughts.

For example, when a man and a woman are in love, he will often do crazy things for her.

He will do things for her, like giving her diamond earrings, for example, without any thought that this would excite her. In fact, the thought of such a thing rarely enters his mind. It just is what it is.

This is one thing we can do to make ourselves the object of someone else’s lust. It is something we can deliberately do by thinking about ourselves when the person looks at us.

However, if we examine a relationship, we will usually see that the emotional aspect of it is a product of our thoughts.

For example, when a man and a woman are in love, he will often do crazy things for her. He will do things for her, like giving her diamond earrings, for example, without any thought that this would excite her.

In fact, the thought of such a thing rarely enters his mind. It just is what it is.

This is one thing we can do to make ourselves the object of someone else’s lust.

It is something we can deliberately do by thinking about ourselves when the person looks at us.

 

Choice

The choice is, for most people, the main reason to be in a relationship. They don’t want or love anyone alone, so they are seeking connection.

However, there is nothing wrong with a person needing a choice in a partner. The important thing is to find one that is good. It is possible to find a partner that is good for you.

We have to make sure that we are finding someone that is good for us. One good person to the left in the relationship will make us look like a bad match or worse.

If we don’t take the time to look for that person or find them, then we will spend a lot of time trying and failing to have what we truly want.

It isn’t going to happen and we will continue to feel bad and frustrated. Instead of that, you will find a one really good person and then you can spend the rest of your life with him or her and make your life easier.

So, to find the one really good person, just look for the person that meets your standards.

There may be more than one that is good but they will be in the 1st or 2nd position because you don’t look for them.

So, the best thing we can do to find a really good person is to find a good person and wait while we look for one. Once you find the one you want, you need to let them know.

This is because they will realize they have found you and will want to be with you but they will be waiting for you and that’s a good thing (I’m not encouraging you to wait!)

 

 

 

 

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